Are you a narcissist?
As the song goes, 'You walked into the room...."
Its all about you. Take a look around you.What do you see? People who are self involved hedonists? Do they only think of their needs, are they rude to others, do they cut in line, cut you off when passing, throw the finger at you?
Has anyone heard the word self sacrifice, or is it some one else who has to do the dirty work? Once upon a time, duty, honor, courtesy, loyalty were words that meant more than just political rhetoric. Now they are used whenever you want to rouse up the masses, convince them they are being abused by another group. It is always about your feelings, not about respecting other people's feelings.
Does the shoe fit? DSM IV